BraveWords.com: Let’s talk about your Shut Up And Give Me The Mic book. Why an autobiography at this point?
Snider: “The book only goes up to 1993. One of my managers said,
‘you have interesting stories and you are such a great story teller that
you should write a book.’ No one’s been knocking on the door, but he
went a shopped it and Simon & Schuster signed me up. They said,
‘what do you want to write about?’ And I said I wanted to write about
the rise and fall of Dee Snider. I want to tell the story from the day I
decided to be a rock star to how everything came apart at the seams and
I lost everything. So, that’s the story I tell and I wrote every word.”
BraveWords.com: No ghost writers?
Snider: “No ghosts. No co-writer. They didn’t want me to write it,
but I said, ‘let me write a few chapters and if you don’t like it I’ll
get a co-writer.’ They loved it. They said I had a great ‘voice’ and was
a ‘great story teller.’”
BraveWords.com: That’s interesting - there’s always been this weird
perception that Dee Snider is a big dummy. You went to the PMRC
hearings and their attitude was ‘dumb rock star about to talk’ and yet
you impressed them. You did Celebrity Apprentice and you mentioned that
you’ve never ‘drank’ or done ‘drugs’ and the newspapers ran with that
headline...
Snider: “A big shocker - I know...”
BraveWords.com: The perception is that you’re this drugged out
dummy. Now, Simon & Schuster appears to think ‘don’t let the dumb
rock star write’. What’s the problem?
Snider: “My editor is a fan and he knows I’m not an idiot, but
writing is a craft. It’s not just something that you do. Taking words
from your head and putting them on a piece of paper in a cohesive way
that engages people... You know all that.”
BraveWords.com: But you’re a writer too. You wrote songs...
Snider: “And I write screenplays too. I never wrote prose, but I
felt that I could write and they loved it. They said they wanted 70,000
words and I delivered 210,000 and they edited it down to 140,000. I had
to write that story as it comes out. I can’t be self-editing. I don’t
know what’s interesting and what’s me blowing smoke up my own ass. I’m
not objective, but it’s written by me and being clean and sober I’m an
observer of the decade of decadence as well as a participant. I have the
ability to step back and go ‘this was the Reagan era.’ This is from my
view - why this music form became what it became. It’s a unique book and
I hope very inspirational because I’m that guy that just never gave up.
I fought and clawed. People will read it and come away going ‘wow’.”
BraveWords.com: Why didn’t you give up? In the ‘70s Twisted Sister
were basically stuck playing in Long Island bars and weren’t getting
anywhere. Record companies didn’t want you. Jay Jay had tried out for
KISS and so on... Why not go work at the local garage?
Snider: “I was thinking about it today because somebody asked me
about my finger. It’s snapped. Why didn’t I just say, ‘I’m done.’ My
brain just doesn’t think like that. I immediately thought, ‘how can I
work around this?’ Even when I lost everything in the ‘90s - my brain
just goes ‘adapt, change and figure it out.’ I’m like the Black Knight
on the bridge in Monty Python’s Holy Grail. In the book, I talk about
getting my wife. She wanted nothing to do with me. Had no interest in
me. I disgusted her, but I would just not give up.”
BraveWords.com: Your marriage is another misconception. You’ve been married since 1981...
Snider: “And I’ve been with her since 1976.”
BraveWords.com: You have four kids that are doing fine.
Snider: “They’re all very creative. They’re cool.”
BraveWords.com: So, you’re really the anti-rock n’ roll guy...
Snider: “I am. In the opening lines of my book I say, ‘be forewarned
- is Sex, Drugs and Rock N’ Roll the great promise of music or failure?
And if that’s what you’re looking for - you’re not going to find it
here, but if you want to read an inspirational story, I’m the guy who
left everything he fucking had on stage and refused to ever say ‘die’...
Then read on. Apparently, it’s engaging people.”
BraveWords.com: You had the highs with 'We’re Not Gonna Take It' and
'I Wanna Rock', but the ‘90s were an abyss. Did you enter into a
depression?”
Snider: “I start the book in the parking lot of the catering hall
fliering cars for my wife for her to do make-up at weddings on weekends.
I am being chased through the parking lot by security. I’m running, not
because I’m afraid of being thrown in jail, but because I’m afraid
they’ll go, ‘Dee Snider? Why are you out here fliering cars? Because I
was that fucking broke. As I was running I say to myself for the
millionth time, ‘how they hell did this happen?’ Then, I go back to the
day I decided to be a rock star and tell the story. I end the book with
me going out that night with my three kids and wife at home, so I could
go put flyers on the cars because we need money. They wanted me to write
an epilogue because it was so depressing. People know I’m back, but it
was so heart-breaking. It’s been fifteen years since that day...”
BraveWords.com: It’s a very dramatic story...
Snider: “I have to give credit to Rudy Sarzo’s Off The Rails. It’s a
great book and the way it starts - with Randy waking him up and saying,
‘dude do you want to come on a plane with us?’ And he said ‘no, I want
to sleep,’ and him saying, ‘that was the last time I saw my friend.’ I’m
getting a chill right now. The whole book is like watching a time bomb
counting down. It’s twelve months until he dies... Eight Months.... A
week... The day before. It’s horrible shit and I took that idea from
Rudy and decided to start with the lowest most tragic point in my life
then back it up and say, ‘how did that happen?’”
BraveWords.com: What strikes me, is that at your lowest point, you’re wife never bailed on you. She stuck by you.
Snider: “Yeah and that’s why this book is a love story. People are
really taken by the love affair that we’ve had. The only wise thing I
ever did - was making this woman love me and I knew it would be for the
right reasons. We’ve had nothing. We’ve had everything and we’ve had
nothing again... I never thought (even for one second) that she wouldn’t
be there. She just said, ‘ok, I can do make-up on weekends or work at a
beauty salon.’ We’re a team and she’s always been there for me. It’s
got the elements of a movie.”
BraveWords.com: Your wife seems to be a spectacular person.
Snider: “Dude - SPECTACULAR! The book is a tribute to her in a lot
of ways. She’s a loyal person and she fell in love with me (after I wore
her down) - not because I was in a band. She didn’t own a stereo or a
record. She didn’t care about music. She fell in love with me because of
me. She wasn’t attracted to me physically - she just liked me for me.
The only time we’ve had problems is when I started to get to full of
myself (in the ‘80s). We had our problems because I started changing. I
was starting to believe my own shit. It’s what ultimately destroyed the
band. Nobody could talk to me.”
BraveWords.com: Will there be a part II to the book?
Snider: “There’s certainly a part II on my computer, but I guess it all depends.”
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